By Russ Harris
Well known myths approximately love set us up for a fight with genuine existence. The inconvenient fact is there's no such factor as an ideal accomplice, all struggle, and emotions of affection come and pass just like the climate. yet that doesn't suggest you can't have a cheerful and romantic courting. via an easy software in accordance with the progressive new mindfulness-based recognition and dedication treatment (ACT), you could learn how to deal with painful suggestions and emotions extra successfully and have interaction absolutely within the strategy of residing and loving together.
With your companion or by myself, ACT with Love will educate you ways to:
Let cross of clash, open up, and stay totally within the present
Use mindfulness to extend intimacy, connection, and understanding
Resolve painful conflicts and reconcile long-standing differences
Act in your values to construct a wealthy and significant courting
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